No, she didn’t get fed up and grievously injure Bilal (if she had it would have been all over social media by now), rather, she took a lesson from Bilal’s Mom and figuratively led Bilal by his manhood. It’s a really old fashioned thing to do and most people these days cannot pull it off with the grace and finesse that Shaeeda did, it’s kind of a lost art these days.
Under the guise of giving Bilal everything he wanted, which was her signing the pre-nup no matter what, she got Bilal to agree to give her a baby before she was 40. We’re not saying that that’s the way we would have done it, but we have to admire, on a certain level, the level of almost hostage negotiator type patience that Shaeeda had throughout this entire experience.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Shaeeda leads Bilal by his manhood
She put up with Bilal’s BS, from pranking her about the house they were going to live in initially, which got him a lot of hate on social media and throughout the fandom. He’s still hated for that, and then having the nerve to wear a t-shirt the next day that said “B Grateful” and proceeding to break Shaeeda down by lecturing her at every turn.
She met his children and was nice to them (that’s a gem of a woman, some women would not be nice to the kids) and she even put up with his ex meddling in their relationship and being involved in their pre-nup! How many exes are involved in the pre-nup? Not many, and a lot of people within the fandom thought that that was abnormal and a bit of an overreach on Shahida (Bilal’s ex-wife’s) part, even if they did have kids together.
Bilal ended up giving Shaeeda what she wanted, but only when he figured out that what she wanted was not a threat to what he wanted and that is… pretty sad.
Shaeeda had to act as the neck that turns the head in this scenario, even though she had every right to just go back to her home country of Trinidad and Tobago and not ever sign anything that would give Bilal control. Shaeeda took one for the team… we respect her, but at the same time, we feel for her. Stay tuned!!!
