TLC ’90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’ finds that we have recently met Erika Owens and Stephanie Matto. These two recently got together in Australia and the viewers love them together! The couple seemed a little closed off at first and getting physical didn’t seem appropriate for some reason. This is the first same-sex couple in 90 Day history, so could it be that keeping them from showing intimacy or is it something else? We have the news on why they are taking things slow.
TLC ’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: ‘Before the 90 Days’ – What Happened Their First Night Together
When the women first met, they hugged quite a bit, but it took a lot to get a kiss out of one of them. Fans thought this was odd, but this is a new relationship, so maybe people have their reasons. They do actually. In the most recent episode of ’90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’, we saw Erika very shocked about the amount of medicine that Stephanie has to take when they go to the nature preserve. Fans of the show were also shocked and curious about what the girls were both thinking in that moment.
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TLC ’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: ‘Before the 90 Days’ – Stephanie and Erika Take It Slow
Stephanie decided to talk to her fans about her new girlfriend and why she hadn’t been intimate with her yet. She posted, “I am going to be the realest with you guys right now. I don’t talk about this much, and it’s embarrassing. It’s gross. It’s not pretty. But it’s my life, and if talking about it can help others feel less alone, then it will be worth it. 2 and a half years ago when I was diagnosed with Aplastic Anemia I was put on lupron. If you don’t know what lupron is, its a sexual suppression medication that stops your period, among other things. I couldn’t be on birth control (for many reasons), and I could not get my period because I would uncontrollably lose blood and need a transfusion due to having low platelets. I have recently come off of the medication, but being on it for such a long time left me with lasting side effects. Lupron, along with my other medication made me a robotic, asexual being for the past 2 years. Add into the mix that I have had some pretty traumatic sexual experiences in my life that make me nervous when just meeting and opening up to someone in that way. It’s not that I don’t care or love them, it is simply a mental thing for me. To be truthful, I have had difficulties with sex in the past. I’ll never forget the text my ex boyfriend sent me saying “at least she touches me” in reference to his current more sexually apt girlfriend. But I know sex can be beautiful, and it can be a bonding experience. Despite my feelings about sex, I do experience love, connection, and physical attraction. And it is SO embarrassing to tell partners this and usually always leads to disappointment or your partner feeling inadequate (when it is really quite the opposite). This is something people have a hard time grasping, especially when you’re in the “business of being sexy” online. So please be aware that upon meeting Erika, my lack of sexual openness was nothing to do with apprehension of my bisexuality. I am FIRM and confident in my sexuality. It was nothing to do with anyone pressuring me. I was incredibly nervous, tired, and insecure: It had been a long time since I had human touch, and it had been a long time since I felt those feelings. People have different love languages, and that is okay. No one is wrong and nobody’s feelings are invalid.”
See, there is a reason that Stephanie is taking things slow and we think that she has every right to! You can have more of their love story on ’90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’. It airs on Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
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