Sometimes one comes across a gold mine when surfing social media, and this certainly seems to the the case with a certain friend of a redditor. According to the story, this redditor’s friend was messaging this “eastern European chick” (their words) on a dating app and had made plans to meet with her.
They showed the redditor the girl’s profile and lo and behold it was none other than Natalie Mordotseva from 90 day. Like any good, supportive friend they stood by and while they may have raised their eyebrow at their friend’s decision, they saved the judgment and the “I told you sos” for afterward.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Crazy nights with Natalie Mordotseva
This man apparently had on his profile that he was a social drinker, and that his job was working for a brewery, which Natalie made no mention of while on the app. So when they met up he thought nothing of ordering a beer along with his meal.
Natalie ordered a virgin Shirley temple and proceeded to talk about her ex and how all he did was drink and how much she hated it. It was then that the guy told her what his job was. Natalie then proceeded to say that it sounded like a job where he made good money so she wasn’t going to write him off for having one beer.
Okay well that’s… open-minded of her. At least at first glance. Until the second beer was ordered and Natalie had a minor freakout, even though they had previously discussed alcohol on the dating app and Natalie had not said anything about this.
According to the poster, his friend said that Natalie then launched into a long rant about how men who drink alcohol don’t take care of their families, this rant went on for so long and got so out of hand that at one point the server came over and asked if there was a problem.
After this date, Natalie insisted that they go back to his place, even though this guy previously had plans to meet up with friends after this date and he offered for her to come along but Natalie didn’t really want to do that, she wanted to go back to his place immediately and would not take no for an answer. (Methinks she’s been watching way too many 90’s sitcoms.)
When they get to this guy’s place she spends the next few minutes just taking a self-appointed tour of his condo! She goes and looks in all of the rooms, flips on the lights, even helps herself to the bathroom but doesn’t use it, then announces that the place is “not okay for children” and then when asked if she actually has kids she says no but hopefully with the right guy one day.
Apparently this guy learned that Natalie wants a guy who can immediately start a family and start taking care of her. When she looked in the fridge and found beer from the guy’s work she exclaimed, “More beer!” In a most judgmental fashion and starts telling him how she doesn’t want a drunkard as her child’s father.
Back up the truck, Natalie, no one consented to being you child’s father yet! The man, at this point is completely flabbergasted and outdone with her behavior so without telling her, he orders her an Uber home. When he finally does tell her that it’s on the way, Natalie gets mad at him and he asks her, “Well, what would you like to do? You won’t sit down and talk about anything other than children and your ex and what you expect from me or any guy.
I can’t offer you a drink and you won’t go out and meet my friends for a drink, you seem to hate me so we are clearly not hooking up. Why would you want to stay here?” to which Natalie replied, “Because I can help you. I can make you a better man you just have to let me.”
After her uber ride home, she sent no less than 25 texts to this man, all of which went unanswered while he went and met his friends for drinks. She ended up being blocked in the end because that was the only way to stop the barrage of messages and calls!
The thing that Natalie doesn’t seem to realize is that that kind of help can only come from within a person and that they have to want to change. You can’t just barge into someone’s well-established life and demand they start making changes so that you can morph them into your baby Daddy which is what it seems like she’s desperately trying to do.
The thing is, before we start victim blaming here, that his man had listed in his profile that he did not want kids, that along with the drinking thing was all there, visible, for Natalie to see. She had even discussed the drinking issue with him before on the app.
So unless someone entirely different is running Natalie’s dating profile, then, this one is kind of on her. Also, can we just say that while Mike was not the ideal guy for Natalie at all that maybe he wasn’t as bad as she’s making him out to be? Because the only thing we ever noticed was that Mike had a tendency to be at work all day while Natalie was left home alone and yeah, he did like to come home and unwind with a beer but lots of men do that.
We knew that Natalie is seeing a therapist, but is she seeing one for this specific reason? She needs to. Also someone needs to educate her that there are preferences on her dating app that she can check.
Then again, Barry Plath is about to be single against nd shares her exact same views on drinking and has an entire farmhouse set up just for children… perhaps he could get himself a new Ukranian wife and Natalie could get the husbot she’s always dreamed of. We’re only half-kidding. Stay tuned!!!
