’90 Day FiancĂ©’ Spoilers tells that, when Memphis piped up and shared her opinion on how she could never stand to share her man, when Kim Menzies said that she would potentially allow fiancĂ© Usman Umar to marry another woman in order to have kids (because Kim is 51 and can’t) Ella piped up and said, “Yeah people say that cheating is the worst thing in the world.” and Kim was quick to cut her off by saying that she was really offended that Ella said that because Usman has consent beforehand, she and Usman have talked about the possibility of him finding someone to have kids with because she can’t physically have them anymore.
What Kim is describing is technically what a Polyamorous relationship is, it’s sort of the same kind of thing that Will and Jada Smith allegedly have. They still respect each other as man and wife, but they are not required to be exclusive to one another, the only thing is, if they do decide to date outside the marriage or possibly bring in a third party, then their respective spouse has to be in on it and essentially give consent to what they’re about to do.
’90 Day FiancĂ©’ Spoilers: Kim Menzies Explains The Difference Between Polyamory And Cheating To Ella
It’s very outside the norm of most relationships but according to some people, works for them. Kim said that she couldn’t really say how she felt about the whole thing because they hadn’t come to that point in their relationship yet.
Kim’s son Jamal came on the tell-all and could not guarantee that he wouldn’t stop their wedding because he didn’t really know Usman’s true intentions. He basically asked him why he would refer to Kim as his “potential”, don’t worry, Jamal, we were as confused as you were.
Imagine Kim’s surprise when they played the call between Usman and Zara, and poor Kim was completely humiliated. Especially after she had went as far as to defend hers and Usman’s relationship as being completely honest and upfront – to find this out? The general consensus among the cast and Jamal was “That’s f***ed up!” and we could not agree more. Kim ran out, humiliated.
Next week’s tell-all promises to be just as messed up, if not more. Stay tuned!!!