TLC ’90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ spoilers indicate we found out two interesting things on the tell-all. For one, Larissa says that when they were married that she had a sneaking suspicion that Colt was sneaking around with Vanessa then because she had a GPS tracker put on his phone and he would show up at various places that he was not supposed to be.
Like one time he told her he had a meeting and he was not at a meeting at all, he was walking around Bank of America and at a place called “Rise”. Colt admitted, in the most disinterested way possible, that he had an emotional affair with Vanessa while he was married to Larissa.
TLC ’90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ Spoilers- Not even Vanessa wants him!
We also found out that for Vanessa, love just simply isn’t enough because even though we know that Colt cares deeply for Vanessa, there is a reason why she won’t date him. And that is because of how much he has played with other women and because of his tendency to lie.
To top it all off, Colt knows about this. He knows about Vanessa’s misgivings and he still refuses to change. While I’m no export, I’m pretty sure that could be categorized as some form of narcissism. While it’s good for you to want someone to accept you for who you are, literally no one has to accept a liar.
No one has to accept a guy who is willing to lie to you and gaslight you and use their Mom against you. In fact, wasn’t that the whole premise of Psycho?
Vanessa says that she doesn’t think that Colt knows what he wants right now and when he decides what he wants she’ll be there but until then she’s not going to date him and is going to keep him at arm’s length as a friend.
You can tell that Colt really isn’t through with trying to woo Vanessa but it looks like Vanessa may be done with him whether he likes it or not. There’s no actual guarantee that Vanessa is going to wait around on Colt, even if he does find out what he wants or, as he put it “who he is”. I’m sorry but if he doesn’t know who he is by the time he’s 35 years old, that’s on him, not anyone else. What a trainwreck, stay tuned!!!