’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers reveal it’s pretty clear from just the way that Ben Rathbun talks over text to fiancé Mahogany Roca that he is taking this relationship way more seriously than she is. For one thing, when she asked him about his relationship with his ex, she didn’t like how he practically blamed his ex for everything and made himself come out smelling like a rose.
He then proceeded to send her what he called 10 pages of text explaining himself. Mahogany is 22, she’s not going to read all of that, especially not in the extra formal way that Ben was phrasing things.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: What On Earth Does Ben Rathbun Want To Say To Mahogany Roca’s Parents?
In fact, just his phrasing was a real turn-off, maybe its not so bad in her native Spanish, but it just seemed to come off really overly controlling and sort of like he was sucking all the air out of the room. Also, one turn of phrase seemed really extra creepy, and even though he was quoting the bible verse “there is no fear in love” the question is, if you’re not giving your fiancé really creepy vibes, why would you need to quote it at them?
Also, when he texted her the novel about his past, Mahogany didn’t respond – of course – how is she supposed to respond to a vaguely religious ramble about someone’s past? She’s 22.
The next morning he was supposed to show up for breakfast with Mahogany’s parents but instead of showing up like a normal fiance would, Ben ghosted Mahogany and then told her that he would like to speak with her parents in private without her there.
What on earth did he mean by that? Mahogany has every right to feel weird about this as it feels like he’s essentially trying to go “over her head” and “speak to the manager” about his girlfriend’s problems, when honestly… Mahogany’s not an extended car warranty, she’s a human being in charge of her own autonomy and if I were either of her parents I would tell her to run far away from this guy because after the age of 18 parents aren’t really supposed to be involved in someone’s relationship unless it’s “hey I want to get my fiancé a gift can you hide it at your place Mom and Dad?” type of thing. What is Ben actually expecting? Stay tuned!!!