’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers tells that while Asuelu Pulaa did do a pretty good job of putting his foot down and not giving in to his Mother and sister’s demands for money, they literally won’t give it a rest. They will literally dog him until the day he dies about supporting his Samoan family and giving them money.
They also won’t hesitate to throw the fact that he’s doing well financially in his face, which is just vindictive. You’re supposed to be happy for your family, you’re not supposed to mooch off them just because they make more than you.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: But That’s Not The Issue
The issue that was totally disgusting, which Asuelu started, was the fact that they do not respect Kalani Faggaata Pulaa’s body autonomy. Asuelu gifted Kalani with a pink baby blanket and told her at the white elephant Christmas gift giving that he wanted a big family.
The thing is, they’ve already discussed this and Kalani has already told him that she did not want another baby right now. That should have ended the discussion right there.
Because she didn’t automatically outright say no, she just said “Not right now” which is totally valid. She was quick to tell Asuelu however that this was a conversation that needed to be between them and them alone.
Tammy and Lisena went off. Literally, the second Kalani expressed doubts about having another baby they started telling Asuelu he needed to move home to Samoa and find another wife, a wife that would pop out a million babies if he wanted her to.
Even Asuelu said that it was stupid, because he doesn’t want another woman, but these two are all about getting Asuelu to move back home to Samoa, that’s all this is. They want Asuelu to come home ASAP, he’s been married and had his kids and sewn his wild oats, but screw that family he has nine siblings back home that Mama needs help financially supporting.
Both Kalani and Kolini make an excellent point though, why isn’t Lisena onto Tammy about having more kids? Tammy already has two children and so far Lisena has not said one word about her having a big Samoan family but she has all these expectations about Asuelu having a big traditional Samoan family.
It’s kind of a double-standard and it’s a pretty disgusting one. These two need to go back to Samoa and stay away from Asuelu and his family… thought judging from next week’s preview, we doubt that’ll happen. Stay tuned!!!