‘90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers tells that we learned that a big reason that Yara doesn’t trust Jovi is because after she lost their baby, Jovi left. We say that Yara is being nitpicky, but is she really? Going through a miscarriage is terrible enough by itself, even with the most supportive of partners. But going through the loss of a child and having your partner leave during the middle of all of that grief?
That borders on a violation of trust, because if you claim to love someone, then part of that love is being there for each other while they’re hurting and clearly Jovi let Yara down by not being there for her when she was going through one of the most terrible times of her life.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Yara is all alone
Jovi’s defense is that previously she was fine with his work schedule. But Yara maintains that that was because she was back in the Ukraine and she was surrounded by her family and friends and she was okay with him being gone for a month.
But considering they only have 90 days together is this really enough time together before they walk down the aisle? Jovi onestly should have thought about this before bringing Yara over, I don’t think he considered what it would be like for her being in another country and how she might feel, which is sad.
That seems to be a thing among the cast of 90 day, poorly preparing and not taking into account how the other person would feel, just a genuine lack of empathy when it comes to their partners who’ve given up their home to come be with them.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: And that’s disappointing.
I’m not going to say that the writing is on the wall yet because this season has only really just begun, but I don’t really hold out much hope for these two. They seem like they are both really new at this, and don’t really have a good grasp on what they truly want out of each other yet or what the other one is really willing to provide.
The thing is, Jovi wants Yara but he doesn’t really want to give up his own life to truly be present for her. Yara wants to be with Jovi but so far she’s the one who’s had to continually make sacrifices and ‘suck it up’ in order to be with him and after awhile?
That gets old. She says that now she feels alone and sad all by herself in the US, and that’s valid. Will they survive until Jovi gets back or will Yara cut and run? Stay tuned!!!