’90 Day Fiancé’ spoilers reveal that Ariela said it best when she said that in her relationship with Biniyam that someone is always winning and someone is always losing, and from the looks of it, it looks like she feels that she is the one that is losing. It’s clear to see why she would feel that way because Biniyam, so far, has gotten his way in almost everything.
Like, for instance, he’s going to baptise the child in the Christian Orthodox religion that he grew up with in spite of Ariela being openly Jewish and kind of uncomfortable with that. He has already made plans to baptise little Avi. Thankfully, Ariela doesn’t have to be baptised in the same religion thanks to his Aunts intervening there, but Ariela wanted to give her son the choice and Biniyam just decided that for him.
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Another thing is, Ariela was unsure about the circumcision. That is a custom in the Christian Orthodox faith as well as the Jewish faith, but ariela wanted to wait until he was older, again, giving him the choice to undergo the procedure.
However, Biniyam and Ariela’s family really pressured her. She siad in the beginning that the only reason that little Avi was circumcised was because of not only pressure from Biniyam but from pressure from her family as well. On a very human level you had to feel for Ariela, when she was running to her baby’s rescue after hearing him scream out in pain. They say that when the baby is that young that they don’t feel pain but I kind of beg to differ there, clearly Avi was in pain.
Thankfully, both baby and Mom calmed down afterwards but ouch, little Avi is going to be sore for a few days after that procedure. I have no doubt that Ariela will take good care of him but I hope that Biniyam can be a bit more tender with his son.
It concerned me that he was so emotionless when they were working on little Avi, Ariela was freaking out and Biniyam was over there practically smiling. I get it, it’s a cultural thing, Ariela said it had something to do with the masculinity over there but come on, have a little sympathy for your son, man! Ouch!
It would seem that Biniyam is under the impression that babies don’t feel pain either, which is absolutely ludicrous. They may not remember it, but it’s scientifically proven that babies feel pain more acutely than adults. We hope little Avi is okay.
Still, the communication skills need to get better between Ariela and Bini. Ariela needs some kind of translator app or something on her phone in order to be able to communicate with Biniyam so that she can express her emotions fully.
I mean, I’d also suggest that his sister come and stay with them but that would get tiring after awhile. Ariela says she doesn’t see them breaking up, which is hopeful, but something’s got to give. Stay tuned!!!