TLC ’90 Day FiancĂ©’ Spoilers reveal the interaction between Asuelu and his Mom, she demanded money not only because she wanted financial support for other family members but because she said their church needed money.
TLC ’90 Day FiancĂ©’ Spoilers: Their church needed money.
Now, coming from the American South where we believe in tithing, I get it the intent behind this statement, I truly do. But at the same time, her son only makes $1,000 a month. He works part time at a ice cream parlor and while yes he has put in for full-time work there’s a pandemic going on right now so a lot of employers are downsizing, not hiring. Auelu needs all the money he can make right now, and his Mom is mad because she can’t front at church?
TLC ’90 Day FiancĂ©’ Spoilers: It’s not the size of the gift
I think Asuelu’s Mom needs to realize that it’s not about the size of the gift in question. There’s a very well-known parable about the tale of the widows mite, where the widow woman gave all she had, which was just a mite (a very negligible amount in biblical terms) but it was valued by God to be greater than all the merchants who had gifted the temple with their riches, because it was all she had.
She could apply that sentiment to other gifts as well, for instance, the $100 that Asuelu and Kalani gifted her. Asuelu gave that because that was all he had and he still wanted to help his Mom, he just couldn’t help her to the tune of $1000.
What she should have done is accepted the gift graciously and not sat there and demanded more than her son could give. There was no reason to break him down, no reason to move him to tears, no reason to yell at him a resteraunt and humiliate him in front of his family, absolutely none.
You would think someone who attends church regularly would see when another person, especially a member of their own family, is literally giving them all that they have, especially in terms of financial gifts. I feel sorry for Asuelu, at least in this sense, because I feel like his family has probably used him as a source of income in the past when I don’t feel that they use either of his sisters as that, in fact his sister flat-out shut Kalani down when she asked them if they sent money home to support the family. But is a good question, do they? And if so then why does the family still need to hit Asuelu up for money?Â
In short, Asuelu’s family need to learn to value him more, rather than what he can do for them financially. We’ll see how things go tomorrow night, stay tuned!!!
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