TLC ’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Before The 90 Days – Will Darcy Silva Ever Find Love? 

TLC ’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Before the 90 days finds that on a certain level you have to feel sorry for Darcy Silva from Before the 90 days. She’s been on this show three times and she still hasn’t found the love she’s looking for. Undoubtedly, she has love in her life, she has her family, her sister, and her daughters. But what Darcy wants is romantic love. No, what I believe she wants is rom-com level love. She said when she was talking to her sister, Stacey, that what she was after was the perfect relationship and that she hadn’t given up on love. But when she said the ‘perfect relationship’, I had to shake my head.

TLC 90 Day Fiancé Spoilers: Before The 90 Days – Because Unfortunately, There Is No Such Animal.

Relationships aren’t perfect. It’s not always going to be wine and roses and diamonds and expensive trips. Darcy seems like a very high-maintenance type of girl, a real next-level girly-girl and while some men can handle that, sometimes it’s just about finding someone a bit more down to earth that you can feel comfortable with and speaking as a low-maintenance girl myself, I don’t think I could feel comfortable around Darcy for an extended period of time. Not that she’s bad or anything, it’s just after a while, someone like me can’t relate to the high-maintenance life.

TLC 90 Day Fiancé Spoilers: Before the 90 days – Will Darcy Ever Find Love? 

Maybe that’s what Darcy’s problem is. We haven’t really seen Darcy, at least not to my knowledge outside a really high-maintenance rom-com-esque situation. That works in a rom-com but it doesn’t actually work in real life. Darcy strikes me as the type of woman who thinks that relationships are all like that. Like she desperately wants to live in a Hugh Grant movie all the time and wind up with the best foreign guy ever. I mean, it’s not a bad dream to have, but I think a lot of her expectations are completely unrelatable. I know I’ve never had an ex ask to meet me in NYC and try to wine and dine me while simultaneously breaking up with me.

I’m not excusing her exes at all. Jesse was just bad and controlling and Tom, well, Tom struck me as the type of guy who, like Darcy, wanted to live out his life in a Hugh Grant movie – as Hugh Grant’s… stand-in, or something. Only he’s not and he never will be. I think the reason why that relationship didn’t work is that they both weren’t relatable – to each other! It worked on paper but there was no substance to the relationship at all. It was fun. I don’t know what they actually bonded over but… it’s clear it wasn’t that deep of a bond. At least on Tom’s part.

Darcy, I feel a bit sorry for because I don’t think she has found her match yet, and I don’t know if she ever will because she keeps choosing the same type of guy over and over again. By this time, you know exactly what type she’s going to bring home and you just shake your head. Sort of like when your teenage daughter keeps bringing home the ‘bad boy’ types instead of that nice, boy next door that you’ve been after her to date for years. Emotionally unavailable, foreign men aren’t going to cut it, Darcy. Maybe she oughta try dating stateside for a bit? Who knows. Stay tuned!!!