TLC ’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: ‘Before the 90 Days’ finds that Lisa Hamme just scared the crap out of fiancé Usman Umar. Lisa is jealous of all of Usman’s female fans who repeatedly make passes at him on social media and now that she’s in Nigeria with him she’s gotten to see just how thirsty all of these ‘females’ are in real life and it looks like it’s causing problems… in more ways than one. Obviously, Lisa is the type of girl who has never been considered ‘good enough’ or paid a lot of special attention to by a guy. So when she does get attention, she gloms onto it. Usman’s attention was arguably pretty romantic, he wrote a song for her after all and Lisa took that and ran with it. Now she thinks he oughta settle down and just be with her, but this is causing Usman some major issues within the relationship.
I don’t get the impression that it’s necessarily because Usman wants to cheat on Lisa with any of these fans, rather I feel like Usman feels rather boxed in by Lisa. Everywhere he goes she’s right by his side, and not really in the good way. She wants to be a dominant part of his life, but she gets mad about the fact that he has a job that requires him to be a social media presence. Does she just want him to quit all that when he comes to the US and slow down and become like a what… a computer programmer? I don’t know about you, but Usman doesn’t strike me as the 9-5 type, ever. He is a performer and when/if he comes to the US he’s going to try and be the same kind of performer that he is in Nigeria, so Lisa needs to get over all of her petty jealousy.
TLC ’90 Day Fiance’ Spoilers: ‘Before the 90 Days’ – Usman Is Scared Of Coming To The US With Lisa
Also, one completely unhealthy trait that I’ve found Lisa has is she really tries to isolate him from everybody. This includes his family, his friends, even his managers. It looks like she wants to be first and foremost in his life all the time and while that’s a goal to work toward, right now Usman’s roots are firmly in Nigeria. When he gets to the US he’s not going to know anyone and he’s going to need to cling to Lisa in just the way she wants. But right now, she needs to stop acting so downright predatory about things. It’s not a good look on her.
I don’t see Lisa changing anytime soon, she has a lot of trust issues it looks like. I’m not saying they can’t be worked through but I think that it may take a different guy other than Usman to do that. Lisa needs someone more her own age… and maybe, just maybe, a few therapy sessions to get over the whole possessive jealousy thing she has going on. Yikes. Stay tuned!!!
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